Ok, so I haven't heard from the Deacon yet, who is supposed to call me soon about the whole He or She fiasco. That should be interesting.
But, I called my parish to talk about our convalidation again and I'm still confused. She said we could wait until Kyle is baptized/confirmed and then do it, or I could get a dispensation to marry outside of the Church, and we would get his sacrament once he's officially Catholic. Um, ok? I told her I'd like to do it as soon as possible and that I wanted the priest to do it, not the Deacon...
I'm not sure why I thought this process would be easy. The process could take as long as normal marriage prep, so even if we started the process now, I might not even need a dispensation because he'll be Catholic in 6 mos.