Thursday, January 19, 2012


Well I guess I just get to complain some more. The woman from my parish never did my dispensation from when she said she would at the beginning of November. I called the diocese tribunal and found out, since I'm just getting the runaround from her.

So, after I was basically in tears while talking to the tribunal, she called and said she's getting the paperwork ready for my dispensation and it'll take 4-6 weeks. This is so stupid. It's going to be Easter soon after, if this happens, which I don't trust will at this point. And after Easter I don't need a dispensation anyway because Kyle will be Catholic.

So, thanks, parish secretary, for not doing your job correctly, completely forgetting, then lying to me about it, and making me live longer in an invalid marriage when this all should've been done and over with in December.

All I want is to be in communion with the Church. I don't appreciate how much harder she has made this.



  1. Gosh, I'm so sorry! This is awful!

    I really do not understand the whole dispensation thing....

    1. The dispensation is just perrmission to marry outside of the church.

    2. He's not catholic yet so in order to have my marriage convalidated, I needed permission to marry someone non catholic.


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